Sunday, April 15, 2012

Is it really true?

I have been quoted toting the typical "Best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else." It sounds air tight. And previous practice has upheld this cliche time and time again. Think about it. Someone just makes you forget about life for a few hours, you remember the thrill of the hunt. I've never had a time when it didn't make me feel stronger, and more viable... and let's face it... That's the key to getting over someone. Liking someone for a little while tends to make you feel a little weak -- even if just for that person. And finding strength again is an empowering thing, which makes us chase that feeling until you realize you've let go.

But recently I have been questioning that very vapid statement. Would it really help? Or would it make feelings blow up in your face? Because it could you know?? It could make every.single.thing. you've been running from an inescapable truth. And are you ready for that? Are you ready to have to make the decisions that are going to be glaringly obvious now?

We all know that I am adamant about always being right. It's just a fact (STOP LAUGHING! It's *my* fantasy, let me live it.) So I am uncomfortable with this recent pondering of my right-ness. It'll be okay, because I will figure out a way to spin it, so I am still right, even if getting over someone is easier under someone else isn't always a true statement.

So where do you guys stand? Is the statement true? Or is it a fallacy we preach to ourselves as a coping mechanism? Comment here or send me an email. Silly_Slut@rocketmail.com

*BSWK*

6 comments:

  1. Well, it can be both. However it just so happens that it blew up in my face. If you entertain even the slightest thought of getting back with someone, don't get with anyone else. If you are 200% sure it's over forever, go for it, it truly helps. Makes you feel alive again. But if there is even a .000000000000000001% chance of getting back together, hold off. :)

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    1. Good advice. It's nice to have another pov.

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  2. Most of the time a fallacy/illusion to try to push forward ... sometimes it works and sometimes it does not and then blows up. But, not all explosions are bad. Sometimes, they are needed to move out something for something new.

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    1. Explosions are bad LLH!!!! You know how I feel about explosions.

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  3. go girl you are wity and awesome c h 4/16/12 l8tor g8tor

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